Allowing anger and a temper to control you is extremely damaging. When someone has a temper it is because they have a deep pain within that hasn’t been dealt with. There are many things that are brewing within that person, it can be unforgiveness, anger, bitterness, confusion, pride, the lack of TRUE love, because they have been neglected, abused physically and emotionally, destroyed inside from relationships and families that have broken which cause extreme damage deep within from the lack of understanding on how to receive healing from such damaging and lingering pain. There are so many reasons as to why people are consumed with anger and why they build walls of “protection” that surround their heart to bottle up their pain and pack it down so deeply inside. Over time it will turn into a raging storm that sits within the heart, it will come to surface and manifest itself when a person is ignited by their lack of willing to communicate with those around them in a cooperative manner. They become hostile with themselves and those around them. There are very real demons who will influence a person to cause self-destruction and damage to people and to property during a temper-episode. I have lived through this kind of tormenting pain, it is VERY real. A person will be so enraged in that moment as they agree and decide to let out all the anger and emotions to surface that they reach an adrenaline and can experience a black-out of not knowing what’s happening to them. This is because they are being empowered by the very evil forces of hell that they cannot get themselves under control. Demons are given the spiritual legal right to manifest themselves in this moment and the person will then have an increased strength not having the understanding or judgement as to how much damage they could be causing and that is why they become unaware of what they are doing. That’s not to give an excuse but to give you understanding on what’s going on in the persons mind during that time. It’s extremely dangerous and life threatening when a temper episode is occurring, the person can become suicidal and life threatening to those around them. THERE IS A WAY OUT of this darkness that has imprisoned you for so long, I know because I have escaped it.
The way out is by throwing yourself at the mercy of JESUS, entrusting Him with all of your inner issues and just being REAL with Him about how you are feeling and asking Him to save you from the misery. You can trust that what I say is truth, follow my advise and take the ONLY way out that can save your soul!! Cry out to JESUS, talk to Him daily, don’t ever give up, use persistence and be patient, cry out to Him until He answers you and meets you in spirit. I cried out to JESUS for 3 days!! I was face planted on the floor in desperation for His help, pleading with Him, telling Him how sorry I was for making such a mess of myself and my life and the lives of those around me. I was so determined to get His help, I wasn’t going to stop reaching out to Him till I got an answer. While crying out to Him, pouring my heart out and admitting that I needed His help, HE THEN ANSWERED ME! And He will do the same for you if you seek Him with all of your heart, mind and soul. JESUS will help you out of the pit of darkness and torment, HE will give your soul REST, LIFE and HOPE. THERE IS ONE THING I AM CERTAIN OF MORE THAN ANYTHING, JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOU CAN TRUST HIM! He is not a liar, You can TRUST Him with the matters of your heart, you can TRUST JESUS with your entire life. He will give you a supernatural strength to learn self control, He will teach you about His love, patience, kindness, selflessness, forgiveness, understanding, long-suffering, gentleness and temperance. You can escape your torment THROUGH JESUS, He is the ONLY WAY OUT.